
Me being fussy about how things look, i got a sj fog light button to replace the after market flick switch. But with the high beam being switched negative, i wired it like this so the light on the button would work...

This works, however the light on the button is always on slightly, but comes bright when pushed like it should. When the button is off and i release the stalk from flash position slowly, the relay kicks in and the spot lights come on???
After a bit of testing i've noticed the high beam stalk wire is live until high beam/flash is on then it is negative; knocking out the light in the button.
When i swap the wires around on the back of the switch it lights up bright all the time but everything else works like it should? Even resorted to asking it nicely but still nothing!!!
so how do i get this set up to work properly!?
thanks for any help!