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My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:31 pm
by SarahSm
My ex husband refinanced the house so he could buy me out my share of the house. The loan went through but the mortgage company is giving him the money. When I questioned this they said that it would have to be decided between us. I do not understand this . If he is buying me out wouldn't the money rightfully belong to me? how is is he is getting the house and half of my money as well. or I should say a portion of my own money? He wants to pay off his credit cards with my money.In our divorce decree it says property is to be decided among us. This looks like he is getting the money and the house as well. This leaves me with practically nothing.He shoud get the house I should get the money correct? Shoud I go back to the divorce lawyer to fight for my money? I am almost ready to tell the mortgage company to put my name back on the mortgage because the deal will be off unless he instruct them to put the money in my account. I took out a personal loan to have the house remodeled last year and to top that off it went over budget. The mortgage company needs to compensate me for that as well. My ex put no money into the remodeling nor did he buy any of the appliances in the house. The house was apraised at $230,000, therefor they are only giving $940,000
To me that is not a fair amount my loan was $12,000 but I had to come out of my pocket with additonal $3,000 for expenses I did see coming, such as a flooded basement. No money was put into this from my ex. Our divorce decree from the state of Virginia says property is to be decided among the party.Should I get the money and he the house? help!

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:45 pm
by ferris
Am i on the right forum?? :er:

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:03 pm
by mk1joe
soo... does your husband have a SJ...?

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Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:09 pm
by Jordi
So who is getting the SJ?

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:24 pm
by Darrell
The husband would get the SJ , the wife would get everything else. She would still say the SJ is half hers though :D

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:29 pm
by ROBBIE
I've been told I might just get the SJ but I'm not going to get any of the house :cry:

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:38 pm
by mk1joe
Its probably the most interesting question ever posted on a car forum.

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:12 pm
by Jordi
My problem is obviously i'd get the SJ and not the house. But where would imput them.

This post raises some vital questions we all need to think about.

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:40 pm
by donkeychomp
This is all a bit odd...why are all the sums in $ and not £?

And still no pics! :hahaha:

Re: My ex-husband bought me out my share of the house???

Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:50 pm
by dan_2k_uk
Its not really spam as not trying to gain anything through advertising or links clicked?

Very odd